17.8.17

I just want to dress like my thin friends.


As a plus size woman, are you still putting limits on yourself when it comes to fashion and the choices you make in regards to dressing yourself/expressing your personality? If you are...please, please try and put a stop to it. As plus size women, we have enough limitations placed upon us. We get told off for wearing certain things, we get shamed in the magazine 'Do's & Don'ts' columns and half the time we dress in a way that isn't even how we'd truly like to dress!

One of my biggest issues is the fact we are still so limited to the amount of great, fashionable pieces available to us. There's no denying the fact, we've come a long way but, I JUST WANT TO DRESS LIKE MY THIN FRIENDS! 






I personally make it a mission of mine every week to find cool, minimal pieces online/in store and let me tell you; it's tricky! Need some ruffles...you're sorted. Need a ditsy print dress...you're sorted. Need a pair of bland, denim skinny jeans...you're sorted!

Where are all the Scandinavian inspired pieces? I love wearing all those things I've just listed, BUT I also want to look like Sweden has just thrown up on me. Think minimal, tailored, relaxed cuts, over size options, crisp cotton pieces, hardware fastenings, muted colour palettes... I want it allllllllll!

WE NEED MORE!





Does anyone else agree with me when I say that they aren't able to dress 100% how they would like to? One thing I know is that I would dress SO different if I actually had the clothes available to me in my size. There are a lot of brands out there trying but I just want them to try harder!

Often, the fit is terrible, the designs are an after thought and don't get me started on the fact so many plus ranges still only go up to a 24/3XL.

I will keep being adventurous, trying things that aren't "meant for me" and getting creative when it comes to styling/wearing smaller sizes... I just wish we had the same options as everyone else...



SHOP MY OUTFIT




1. White shirt also available in plus size here | 2. Jeans | 3. Bag | 4. Earrings | 5. Trainers 

I found this amazing sleeveless shirt in the Tall section but I am happy to report they have just bought it out in the plus size range as well...more of this please!



Fab Photographs by JKGPhotography 


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15 comments:

  1. 100% agree with you Danie! I sometimes feel like it's punishment for being bigger. I would love to have the variety that my friends have, I'm jealous every time we go shopping and it's just not good enough! Having a tiny section shoved in the back for plus size is not acceptable. For what it's worth, you dress impeccably not matter your options!

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  2. For me it is very hard to find good business clothes. Especially suits of good quality are hard to find. Often I look so bulky with them. So, I have to be creative to be styled business appropriate. But it is also good, to be creative, try some different styles or combinations. And not just boring trousers and the matching blazer ;-)

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  3. "BUT I also want to look like Sweden has just thrown up on me." UM YES. As I've gotten older, I definitely drift towards more minimalist styles but I love using different hardware, different textures, and interesting details to pump it up. I find it hard to find those minimalist styles on a budget though. I'm a grad student and just can't afford $50 a shirt, or $75 for trousers.

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  4. Yes. And yes. And yes. And you look fit in this outfittt

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  5. Agreed. I was browsing the website of a popular brand and their plus section was grim. Miles away from the clothes for everyone else in terms of style and trend. Like we should be lucky just to get clothes at all. And the few on trend pieces cost an arm and a leg. I am not a square, I do not want to wear huge florals. It's almost enough to make me want to give up and just wear my pyjamas everywhere!

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  6. Looking good in all that white. I avoid it as I can't keep anything white, I'm the shittest housewife ever. Hahaha, yes to Sweden throwing up on you! The closest I've come to that is throwing up in Sweden, but that's another story entirely. ;)

    I wish there were more alt stuff in plus sizes, instead of having to DIY things myself. It's a ball ache! xx

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